Charitable Giving Framework
Help someone move from vague intentions about giving to a deliberate framework — including how much, to what, through what structures, and with what vision for the long-term impact.
When to Use
The user has accumulated meaningful wealth and is thinking about the role of giving in their life. They may be reacting to a major financial event, feeling hollow despite financial success, or simply realizing they have never been deliberate about this. They might say:
- “I know I should give more but I don’t know where to start”
- “I just sold my company — what do I do with some of this?”
- “I want to give but I want it to actually matter”
- “I give to random causes but I don’t have a real strategy”
- “I want my net worth when I die to be close to zero”
- “How do wealthy people think about philanthropy?”
The Core Principle
From Mike Beckham, founder of Simple Modern, worth ~$200M, who donates 50% of his income annually (top_money_and_life_secrets_from_25_millionaires__w.md):
“Giving is in many ways the antidote to the cancer that we have inside of ourselves. It is a thing that naturally helps keep in check. And I have a little voice in my head that is like, ‘It’s all about you. Do whatever you want.’ And anytime I intentionally choose to not put myself first, I intentionally choose to use my resources or my time to serve other people instead of myself, I turn the volume on that voice down, and I win the war a little bit that day.”
From Bryan Johnson (the__300_million_exit_that_s_funding_humanity_s_fu.md), who deployed his entire $300M Braintree exit into OS Fund and Don’t Die:
“Yeah, I mean for for better or for worse, I I view humanity as the beneficiaries. I certainly love my children. I do my very best to be a fantastic father. But they do not receive disproportionate financial resources. I I view the species as the beneficiaries.”
From Neil Patel (how_neil_patel_spends__200k_a_month.md):
“I want my net worth when I die to be close to zero.”
These are not the same philosophy. The goal is not to find the right answer — it is to find your answer deliberately.
Step 1: Define What Giving Is For
Before deciding how much or where to give, get clear on what role you want giving to play in your life.
Three distinct models from MoneyWise guests:
Model 1: Giving as antidote to ego (Mike Beckham + Ryan) Giving is a daily discipline that protects you from the accumulation mindset. You develop the muscle early and it scales with wealth. Ryan, another MoneyWise guest, illustrates the principle:
“One of the times when I was in the nonprofit world doing ministry stuff, there were a lot of times where I would take college guys out to lunch. And I would always feel like, ‘I should buy this guy lunch.’ And I remember being like, ‘Man, buying this guy a $7 lunch right now feels financially painful.’ But the thought that I had at the time was, ‘You don’t get a chance to go back ever and take advantage of an opportunity to be generous.’ And I just realized like, ‘Hey, there’ll be a point in the future where I’ll probably have enough money that $7 won’t matter to me, but I can’t come back and have this opportunity again.’ And so I just built the muscle really early on.” — Ryan
Model 2: Giving as life’s primary purpose (Bryan Johnson) After a major exit, deploy capital into a mission that extends beyond personal legacy — into something that could matter at civilizational scale:
“I could have taken that capital, I could have made it worth like 10 billion by now by doing something that was boring and easy.”
Johnson chose not to because he frames wealth purely as a tool for his mission:
“The printing press, enlightenment, industrial revolution, flight, personal computer, moon landing, internet, artificial intelligence, don’t die. I really believe that Don’t Die is on that scale.”
Model 3: Giving as the dominant line item in a spending budget (Neil Patel) Giving is what you spend most of your money on — not as sacrifice, but because it genuinely produces more happiness per dollar than anything else:
“The biggest chunk of our expenses is donations. It’s somewhere between 100 and 150 a month… My wife and I would just have the philosophy of like, it’s cool going to the Super Bowl, we did it. I’d rather give the money to some kid who is from Missouri or somewhere and they can’t afford to go to college, right? Like for us, that just makes us more happy.”
Ask the user: Which of these models resonates? Is giving an antidote to ego accumulation, a primary purpose, or just the most satisfying use of discretionary money? The answer shapes everything else.
Step 2: Start the Giving Muscle Before You Think You’re Ready
The mistake most wealthy people make: they wait until they have “enough” to start giving meaningfully. Beckham’s counter-argument is that the muscle must be built before the weight arrives.
From Sam Parr’s reflection on Beckham’s episode:
“The main lesson here, giving is a really great way to keep your ego and your lifestyle in check and help you feel more happy in general with your life. It’s a muscle that you really should start flexing as early as possible, not just waiting until after you die.”
This applies at any income level. If you are not giving 1% of income now, you probably won’t give 10% when you have $10M. The discipline precedes the scale.
Ask the user: What percentage of your income are you currently giving? If zero or near-zero, what is the smallest percentage you could commit to right now and actually follow through on?
Step 3: Choose the Right Vehicle
Different giving structures have different tax implications, flexibility, and strategic value.
Direct giving: Simplest. Write checks to causes you care about. Limited by deductibility rules in a given tax year.
Donor-Advised Fund (DAF): The most commonly recommended vehicle for wealthy founders. You deposit money, take the deduction immediately, then distribute to charities over time at your own pace. Josh Payne’s approach (sold_for__80_million___then_hit_rock_bottom.md):
“We give six figures a year to donations, like in a donor-advised fund. It’s donated but not actually provided to anyone, but it gets, you know, gives us the ability to to start that donation.”
Business-embedded giving: Mike Beckham committed 10% of all company profit to donation — a structure that ties giving to business performance and makes it systematic rather than discretionary.
Operating foundation / mission company: Bryan Johnson’s approach — the company itself is the philanthropic vehicle. OS Fund invests in breakthrough science; Don’t Die is both a movement and a mission. The exit proceeds never landed in personal wealth in any conventional sense.
Ask the user: What tax situation are you in this year? Are you looking to take a deduction now but give over time? If so, a DAF is probably the right starting vehicle.
Step 4: Think in Tiers of Impact
Bryan Johnson articulated a framework for what different wealth levels can actually accomplish philanthropically:
“There’s this idea that like a really high level contribution isn’t fully appreciated until at least some time point in the future.”
His framework: the impact of a gift scales non-linearly with size. $1M might fund a research project. $50M might fund an institution. $250M+ might fund a shift in how humanity thinks about a problem.
Johnson’s self-assessment:
“I genuinely believe Don’t Die is kind of okay, so like let me read this off. So I wrote in sequence, the printing press, enlightenment, industrial revolution, flight, personal computer, moon landing, internet, artificial intelligence, don’t die.”
This is an extreme version of the framework. But the underlying logic applies at all scales: what level of impact do you actually want to have, and does your current giving approach match that ambition?
Neil Patel’s version at a more accessible scale:
“I want to get to a billion in revenue a year… And by the way, it depends what you consider net worth too. Like if I get there, I’m going to be donating it. I don’t want my net worth to be billions of dollars.”
His children each have nine-figure irrevocable trusts. Everything beyond that is earmarked for giving.
Ask the user: What scale of impact do you actually want your giving to have? Local and personal? National? Civilizational? The answer should determine both the scale of giving and the strategy for allocating it.
Step 5: Anonymous Giving and the Joy Question
Steve Houghton’s story from the Five Pillars episode — the highest form of giving may not be structural at all:
After his mother died, Houghton pulled up to a gas station behind a woman who reminded him of her. He offered to fill her tank, said it was in honor of his mother, and she drove away:
“She was shocked. She couldn’t believe it. And so I put gas in her car and she drove away and I never saw her again. And yet, the whole day for me was different after that.”
This is the core test for any giving: does it produce genuine joy, or just the performance of generosity?
Sam Parr’s reflection after Jennifer’s episode:
“The best way to get revenge on someone is just to be a better person, is to succeed and is to be happy.”
The goal of giving is not merely to allocate capital efficiently. It is also to cultivate a disposition toward generosity that changes how you experience your wealth.
Ask the user: When was the last time you gave something in a way that produced genuine joy — not obligation, not strategy, not tax planning, but actual joy? If you can’t remember, that’s a data point worth examining.
Quick Reference
| Model | Scale | Vehicle | Motivation |
|---|---|---|---|
| Daily discipline (Beckham) | 50% of income | Business-embedded + direct | Antidote to ego accumulation |
| Mission deployment (Bryan Johnson) | 100% of exit | Operating company/foundation | Civilizational impact |
| Dominant budget line (Neil Patel) | $100-150K/month | Direct giving | Produces more happiness per dollar than anything else |
| Donor-Advised Fund (Josh Payne) | Six figures/year | DAF | Tax efficiency + flexibility + habit |
| Anonymous gift (Houghton) | Any amount | Direct | Joy without performance |
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Output
After working through this framework, deliver:
- Giving model — which of the three models (antidote/purpose/budget line) fits the user’s situation and temperament
- Starting percentage — the minimum viable giving commitment they can make and stick to right now
- Vehicle recommendation — direct giving, DAF, business-embedded, or foundation, based on their tax situation and goals
- Impact tier — the scale of impact they want to have, and whether their current approach matches it
- Joy test — one giving action they can take in the next 30 days that is about joy rather than strategy
Source
“The $300 Million Exit That’s Funding Humanity’s Future with Bryan Johnson” — MoneyWise podcast, January 2025. Guest: Bryan Johnson.
“How Neil Patel Spends $200K a Month” — MoneyWise podcast, March 2024. Guest: Neil Patel.
“Sold For $80 Million — Then Hit Rock Bottom” — MoneyWise podcast, November 2024. Guest: Josh Payne.
“Top Money and Life Secrets from 25 Millionaires” — MoneyWise podcast, October 2024. Guest: Mike Beckham (among others).